Understanding Bullying​

• Bullying: A Complete Guide to the Support Group Method by George Robinson and Barbara Maines

• Understanding School Bullying: Its Nature and Prevention Strategies by Peter K Smith

 

Understanding empathy, compassion and love

• Born for Love: Why Empathy Is Essential and Endangered by Maia Szalavitz and Bruce D Perry

• Roots of Empathy by Mary Gordon

• https://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/p0bbnjvx/inside-our-autistic-minds-series-1-episode-1

• How to Know a Person The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen By: David Brooks

• The Promise That Changes Everything: I Won’t Interrupt You by Nancy Kline

 

Acts of kindness change your mental health https://www.sussex.ac.uk/research/centres/kindness/people

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and            https://www.bbc.co.uk/ideas/videos/the-woman-who-was-kind-every-day-for-a-year/p0bt6c4j

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Understanding Trauma

Jon G. Allen, PhD, on Trauma in Attachment Relationships (his books are very expensive)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N7gMUMx2tQQ&list=TLPQMjgwMTIwMjO83r6cVRxcFA&index=11

• The Body Keeps the Score: Mind, Brain and Body in the Transformation of Trauma by Bessel Van Der Kolk

• The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog by Bruce D Perry and Maia Szalavitz

• https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dsCNuB_KBUw

• Trauma is the cause of violence

• https://www.itv.com/hub/behind-the-rage-americas-domestic-violence/10a1276a0001

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Understanding Attachment

Probably the most comprehensive video on Attachment

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LSVLJKUrmGg

      

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• Creating Loving Attachments: Parenting with PACE to Nurture Confidence and Security in the Troubled Child by Kim S Golding and Daniel A Hughes

• Why Can't My Child Behave?: Empathic Parenting Strategies that Work for Adoptive and Foster Families   By Dr Amber Elliot

 

Parenting Without Punishment

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• Parentuality: How to Have an Amazing Relationship with Your Child by Dr Linda Mallory

• Unconditional Parenting: Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason by Alfie Kohn

• Punished by Rewards: The Trouble with Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, A's, Praise and Other Bribes by Alfie Kohn

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Forgiveness​

• The Book of Forgiving: The Fourfold Path for Healing Ourselves and Our World Desmond Tutu

• The Forgiveness Project: Stories for a Vengeful Age by Marina Cantacuzino

 

The Experience of Different Ages in Life

• I am Different from You: How Children Experience Themselves by Peter Selg

• Taking Charge: Your Life Patterns and Their Meaning by Gudrun Burkhard

 

Psychotherapeutic Aspects of Therapy

• A Psychology of Human Dignity by Ad Dekkers

 

Sense-able

• Why Cleaning Has Meaning: Bringing Wellbeing Into Your Home by Linda Thomas