top of page

Developing Love 

I developed and delivered these lessons for 28 years and to my deepest joy, participants who were able to practice the exercises reported amazing experiences. The effects are long lasting and participants reported that they have learned to love anyone unconditionally, unreservedly and wholeheartedly. Thus, I feel confident that these lessons will help those who find it difficult to love.


To love and be loved improves quality of life, self-worth, a sense of purpose, improved health and happiness. When Love is an active force, you will experience a sensation welling up inside you. You may experience it as a feeling or a flowing sensation in the centre of your body. Not the heady sensation of falling in love, but a strong flow that is replenished constantly as it flows from you. Loving in this way will leave you feeling refreshed or energised rather than tired and exhausted as you may have felt when you have tried to force yourself to love someone.

Active Practical Love has a freeing effect on ‘the other’. In the early years I called this course of lessons Giving Freedom, because of the effects of such an Active Practical Love that allow others to be more themselves. Being loved in this way, ‘the other’ is set free to develop; in other words, when you are able to love someone unconditionally and unreservedly they are given a vitality to become who they really are.


So, as you become more practised you will recognise the full force of the activity of love. You will experience the effect on you the giver, as well as the receiver of your love. The truth is that you change yourself as soon as you change your feelings towards someone. So, when you practise the exercises your feelings of disappointment, disgust and resentment will transform into powerful feelings of love; or in the case of an absence of feeling for the other, a lack of regard can be transformed into deep felt loving affection.

Please watch the video on Youtube 


© 2013 by Light and Shadow.

bottom of page